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Die\u0165a pred\u0161kolsk\u00e9ho veku m\u00e1 zvy\u010dajne ve\u013ea potrieb a po\u017eiadaviek, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa s […]","datePublished":"2018-01-21","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ponti.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ponti.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/42264ea8f5170010011c6bbf811aa6c31c20ad3acf2a9bd21dca0746ea8c832a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/42264ea8f5170010011c6bbf811aa6c31c20ad3acf2a9bd21dca0746ea8c832a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ponti.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ponti.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a286039_w16558_t1521657426.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ponti.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a286039_w16558_t1521657426.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ponti.sk\/chcete-poslusne-alebo-samostatne-dieta\/","wordCount":383,"articleBody":"Dne\u0161n\u00e1 doba priniesla nov\u00fd fenom\u00e9n – neposlu\u0161n\u00e9 deti. V minulosti bolo be\u017en\u00fdm javom, \u017ee die\u0165a dostalo po zadku alebo facku. Dne\u0161n\u00e9 mlad\u00e9 rodiny sa trestaniu det\u00ed bit\u00edm vyh\u00fdbaj\u00fa, a tak je be\u017en\u00fdm javom na na\u0161ich uliciach, v obchodoch i doma kri\u010diace neposlu\u0161n\u00e9 die\u0165a. Die\u0165a pred\u0161kolsk\u00e9ho veku m\u00e1 zvy\u010dajne ve\u013ea potrieb a po\u017eiadaviek, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa s t\u00fdmi rodi\u010dovsk\u00fdmi \u010dasto v rozpore. Chce \u00eds\u0165 von a to hne\u010f, potrebuje nutne dupn\u00fa\u0165 do kalu\u017ee, chce sa hra\u0165 s loptou, a nie na piesku. Kv\u00f4li nevyzretej centr\u00e1lnej nervovej s\u00fastave nem\u00e1 die\u0165a e\u0161te vyvinut\u00fa trpezlivos\u0165. Rodi\u010dia sa spo\u010diatku sna\u017eia vysvet\u013eova\u0165, nesk\u00f4r sa veci za\u010dn\u00fa rie\u0161i\u0165 pr\u00edkazmi a z\u00e1kazmi. Namiesto zlep\u0161enia situ\u00e1cie ale die\u0165a \u010dasto reaguje krikom, vzdorom alebo uzatv\u00e1ran\u00edm sa do seba. Ako z toho von? Najprv je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ujasni\u0165 si, k \u010domu chcete die\u0165a vychova\u0165. 1. K poslu\u0161nosti, aby po\u010d\u00favalo va\u0161e pr\u00edkazy a pohybovalo sa v hraniciach, ktor\u00e9 mu nastav\u00edte. Budete ma\u0165 pokoj a pocit, \u017ee m\u00e1te vychovan\u00e9 a poslu\u0161n\u00e9 die\u0165a, ale stane sa z neho jedinec, ktor\u00fd sa nevie s\u00e1m rozhodova\u0165 a nies\u0165 zodpovednos\u0165 za svoje \u010diny. 2. K samostatnosti, nez\u00e1vislosti a schopnosti nies\u0165 zodpovednos\u0165 za d\u00f4sledky svojho konania. Hlavn\u00fdm princ\u00edpom v\u00fdchovy k samostatnosti a nez\u00e1vislosti je odme\u0148ova\u0165 a l\u00e1skavo nastavova\u0165 hranice. Die\u0165a v tomto veku e\u0161te nerozli\u0161uje hru od ne-hry. Behanie po obchode pova\u017euje za nah\u00e1\u0148a\u010dku. S rados\u0165ou berie do r\u00fak v\u0161etko, \u010do vid\u00ed. Najlep\u0161ie je e\u0161te pred pr\u00edchodom do obchodu die\u0165a upozorni\u0165 „Potrebujem, aby si po obchode nebehal\/nebehala, boj\u00edm sa, je tam ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed.“ Takouto vetou nastav\u00edte hranice a budete ich musie\u0165 d\u00f4sledne dodr\u017eiava\u0165. Maznanie, oce\u0148ovanie, radostn\u00e9 \u0161antenie – to v\u0161etko v\u00e1s povedie ku spolupre\u017e\u00edvaniu. Postupne sa v\u00e1m podar\u00ed na seba naladi\u0165 a nebudete potrebova\u0165 zlos\u0165 a krik na komunik\u00e1ciu s die\u0165a\u0165om. Vytvor\u00edte tak medzi sebou pevn\u00e9 puto d\u00f4very, ktor\u00e9 pretrv\u00e1 do dospelosti.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Chcete poslu\u0161n\u00e9 alebo samostatn\u00e9 die\u0165a?","item":"https:\/\/www.ponti.sk\/chcete-poslusne-alebo-samostatne-dieta\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]